OMG
Macy you are making me feel like I a a proud parent!
I am sooo happy you read the book -
It really helped me feel better about things...
And I can't say how glad I am that you now see Bob from a new angle. You are breaking a cycle Macy - it is certainly not easy being a ground breaker - you can hold your head high - as you truly are a trail blazer!
OT - life is a complicated thing - I know I have done my best to complicate my own life along the way - I envy people who have managed to keep things simple. It sounds like you knew your focus and stuck to it. I believe that you must have been taught a good set of Morals - what was your Dad like?
The thing with these men AND WOMAN -( Thanks ladies, for pointing out the obvious) they did not have anyone to teach them what is right and what is wrong. Jamaica had some of the most brutal slave owners in the world - the scars they left still run deep.
Doctoro - sincere thanks - I write from my heart and when I'm done I often feel exposed - I was worried I might offend someone so I truly appreciate your ever present positive feedback - and as always -You made some really good points - We can lead a horse to water.......
Wit - I am so happy to hear that Himself continues to be one of the good ones - we all know how hard it is to find a good one .
Oliz - Yes! - perhaps part of the allures is that the woman can feel "in control" as long as they are the one with the deep pockets. Control is such a major issue in so many relationships.
Wit - this is for you