~ doctoro ~ wrote:'What about you, easy or hard azzzz when it comes to conveying your feelings?'
Its easy to show my feelings, mostly a person can tell how I am feeling by the expression on my face, I dont know how to do a poker face, still working on that. LOL!
But, on the serious side verbalizing a "I am sorry" "Please forgive me" comes alot easier for me these days especially with love ones. The emotion that I tend to stuff down is anger, dealing with a situation now where I want to "tell" someone off. However, I feel my mother sitting on my shoulder whispering in my ear that "you cant reason with stupid", so I shall hold my tongue for another day when my anger has subsided and I can tell the person in the way that their words hurt me today.
The older I get the more I incorporate my mother (RIP) reasoning skills in my life, she had it down to a science. Reminds me of a quote "Its not what people call you it is what you answer to" cant think of the author right now, however, it is def keeping me from "acting a damn fool" as my grandma would say.
Love the black women in my life that raised me, it was truly a village!