easton714 1/24/2011, 8:38 am Ok.
Here it goes.
Some of you know me well enough to know I mean no ill will. To others, I guess you'll have to trust me.
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So it sure seems like a disproportionate amount of female Jamaica regulars either have or have had serious relationships with Jamaican men.
I am not passing judgment. At all. I have a related question:
Does the same thing hold true for men? Do male Jamaica-regulars develop serious relationships with Jamaican women? Do they try to bring the women back home? And marry? Etc.? If not...why not? What is the difference?
If it does work both ways, I cannot recall any examples (or examples made public) on any forums I have frequented.
So, again, this questions is purely curiosity.
Thanks for understanding. [quote from easton]
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There have been a few such foreign male/Jamaican female relationships that I have witnessed from the boards I can name names because they were lived out on public boards, the name of the man who met and later married and is still married to the Jamaican female who sold fruit and wrote the beautiful love story is Scottie, he still frequently posts on N.c and sometimes on J.c. Also there is Geo cox who had long term relationships with a few Jamaican females and was in one for at least three years before he went underground and stopped living his life on the Internet. There is the Mr and Mrs Sea Star, also the big puffed up guy who knows all, over on n.c has publicly posted of his long term relationship with a Jamaican female, a friend who came to Negril 3 years ago for the first time with me is still in the relationship with the woman he met that year in fact he is here now visiting her.
So I guess you are right the ratio for foreign female to foreign male in relationships with Jamaicans is definitely greater.
Before I give my opinion on why. I want to ask this question of the males on this board. Why? Have any of you had relationships with Jamaican females, if not why?
Another observation is there are not a lot of Jamaican female with foreign female tourists friendships either. And I am not talking about just relationships with family members of your SO, but Jamaican women you have met on your own. Why?
I've always been curious about all three of these scenarios. Thanks Easton for asking, because as you say it can be a sensitive subject.