RW-
"The main thing that draws me to Negril is seeing some of the people we have made friends with, there, and through these boards."
IMOP- if your main draw is not to relax, refresh, and renew, you are not going on vacation but taking a trip. Try showing up without telling anyone when you are coming or leaving:-)
"I'm tired of the Hustle and not being able to trust ANYONE. "
Why do you need to trust. I love many but trust few especially on any vacation.
" I get really sick of the repetitive food choices after a few days '
I always pack snacks especailly coffee on all my vacations. I took cofee to Kona which is like taking weed to Jamaica.
"I want to see new places and cultures "
Many places to see in Jamaica but culture takes time. If you are busy vacationing simple learn enough about the culture not to offend. Please do not call Jamaicans rude because they beg/ask excessively,habitually:-))))). They are creating an opportunity for you to express your generosity, so leave that quality at home
" I cant find my rose colored glasses."
Just smile and tell yourself, you are a guest, it their country, and I can't change it.
Change the main reason/draw to relax and enjoy and there are places you can do that. However, I don't think anyone should keep going back to the same place over and over. There is an amazing world to see but Negril is NOT the best Jamaica has to offer.