Ohhh Medster, Everything is going to be OK.
I know it hurts that they aren't listening to you but I imagine they are dealing with their own little issues - He may be having second doubts about his wife going off to Negril and in order to feel more in control he wants to think he is doing the best and safest thing by using the resorts transportation - they are already trusting the resort with lots of money as well as their safety and well being - She to could now have some fears about the trip. Its an illusion of safety they need to create.
My advice, (which you can certainly take or leave) would be to relax - remember that you are the one who KNOWS - let them do their things and remind yourself that good things are worth waiting for. Heck, this may have been the Taxi ride where you ran into a roadblock with a spliff in hand and some of that hard earned vacation money pays for the PoPos lunch. Medi darling, just sit back and enjoy the view- - dont let the all inclusive fools into your brain - they are operating out of their own fears - Once you hit that water all your cares will wash away.
- I know it is hard being a third party to a phone but in least you know what your going to face so you can practice letting go of it ahead of time, There are so many bad things written about Negril -It is hard for the spouse at home
One of the biggest lessons I go to Negril for - is the art of patience. I remind myself of that the minute I am waiting in line at the airport. Lord, I could use a douse of that right now!
Travelers sounds awesome - you will be in heaven my friend. You are really going to enjoy that ocean front room and comfortable bed at GP. You too deserve a little luxury now and then -