04-17-2012, 06:41 PM
My heart goes out to you, dear Donna! This is a sad time, for sure. I can only say how I myself would handle this. Yes, I would want to know, via an e-mail. However, I would not cut my hard-earned vacation short to go back. If it were me on death's door, I would NOT want anybody doing this! However, I would have some times on my vacation when I would remember this person, speak about her aloud with Jim, especially when the sun was setting. I would send out comfort & strength for the family & friends who were mourning her. I say....go!