04-17-2012, 12:55 PM
How very sad Donna, I'm so sorry you are going through this.
I think you are wise to go - I think If I were the one facing deaths door I would feel bad if my friend canceled her trip - you need to do what you do for yourself to be good at your work. Taking care of children is exhausting - I am sure you need a vacation as well as a little time away from the sadness of your dear friends situation.
Please don't feel guilty - you are going to be the one left here missing her - that requires strength.
Go have some fun with your hubby -.
love and hugs