That's a good idea Jenny.
It would be good to discuss stuff off board. I think there are so many misunderstandings going on - it is really very sad. There is a chat here sitting unused. Dread needs to install something so people can send pm's - maybe that would help.
I think it would be best if people were to stop bringing stuff here from other forums. Sometimes when it is a good discussion and banned people feel the need to discuss it, i understand - however, for the most part, it just seems to stir things up.
Something else Ive been thinking about is that having grown up in New England, I really get a lot of the humor on this board. But now that I live in California, I know a lot of people don't. We poke fun at ourselves and others, in a way that many people don't. It is not meant to hurt. I think many people just don't get it.
Nice to see you here Jenny!