What about this....if we all can agree & promise to, instead of posting a new topic or turn a thread into something that is inflammatory (i.e., likely to get Tammy in hot water & having to deal with "stuff", invite another person (or people) into the Chat Room to discuss such things, or e-mail another person to discuss it? Believe me! I am certainly aware of how very HURTFUL & FRUSTRATING other people's actions can be, but this way, there's a way to vent, commiserate & get relief from it and Tammy does not get hurt in the process.....how 'bout that???

That's a good idea Jenny.
It would be good to discuss stuff off board. I think there are so many misunderstandings going on - it is really very sad. There is a chat here sitting unused. Dread needs to install something so people can send pm's - maybe that would help.

I think it would be best if people were to stop bringing stuff here from other forums. Sometimes when it is a good discussion and banned people feel the need to discuss it, i understand - however, for the most part, it just seems to stir things up.

Something else Ive been thinking about is that having grown up in New England, I really get a lot of the humor on this board. But now that I live in California, I know a lot of people don't. We poke fun at ourselves and others, in a way that many people don't. It is not meant to hurt. I think many people just don't get it.

Nice to see you here Jenny!

Just wanna know..If I do da Chat route..does that mean the "gloves can be taken off"... Ok, I'm sorry Tammy--bad me...really, am not all that negative..I would love to live in a world full of peace and understanding...but some of us don't want to be treated like a door mat or have others either..Thats all...