as he will use it to spite you. This one friend tells me this. She has her own money but pretends not to so the man will give her more. I think she was trying to teach me something.
As most of you know, I am a single gal. I expect nothing from anyone.. and tend to give more than I get...cuz that's just the way I roll.
I was more than a bit disturbed by this comment but am thankful that I now have the knowledge that I can't fix or change the way people think, specially in Jamaica.