LOL @ OT. That is crazy!
I have to take a minute and say I don't have the same ill feelings towards those walking Ja sperm banks as some folks have. I can't blame the individual, when to me it is a cultural phenomena. I totally get others anger at dead beat fathers spreading their stuff all over the place and not looking back - However I can't judge them as I was not born into a culture that believes the more you propagate the bigger the man you are. If I was born and raised in Ja I might also feel that having lots of babies was a good thing. I can't know because I wasn't so that is where I stop passing judgment. Does that make sense?
I once asked a Rasta who I considered very smart and fairly well educated "why on Earth do you want to have as many babies as you can ?" The answer was "so when I grow old it gives me a better chance of someone taking care of me"
That theory seems totally warped to me. However when went on to think deeper, I concluded; if you have grown up seeing impoverished older folks it could be very scary. In that case, that theory would make a lot of sense.
And OT - Thank you!
My daughter is the one thing I am proud of.