Poor donkey-Your taller than it ...LOL... Isnt it trip Macy driving on the N coast and to see all those huge houses (mansions) I remember thinking they were hotels... It is sad that you never see anyone sitting on those Fab porches with incredible views.....
RGondaRoad wrote:'
JB, yes we've had discussions.'
Then do you not remember them ??? If you and others did- you would understand why JB was simply making a point..YOUR PLACE you stay different
than HER PLACE..and why does that matter?? Cause you;ve both had different EXPERIENCES in the places you stay in(has nothing to do with how fancy or on the cliff,etc,etc..ok)-and when JB has brought up some of the issues she has dealt with you will discount,downplay and just almost plain discredit her exps. because it's never happen to YOU- Even if you've been going to Jam for all the years you have and have all these friends that live there -it still doesnt make you the one-and -know-it-all authourity figure on everything Jam..Which is how you can sometimes across to others-and as Tim stated in a condescending way..JB was trying to make a point and hoping you'd understand it was just to point out to you that you two live in totally different places/situations,,If you knew where she stayed at and what the dynamics were and better yet,stayed there for week or so -you'd come to appreciate what she was talking about instead of re-acting in disbelief..and dis-crediting her..
Thats ALL this was ever about-and instead, it gets this other life of its own-which is how it sometime goes on the net...
ANd why would you state that i try to minimize your exps??? I;m happy for the life you have in Jam and Cali- again am sorry about the passing of your friend-that just plain sucks.. I will be honest, i actually have to laugh a little bit when i read how about your dealing with no water..not about your suffering without it of course- but about the fact that its an everyday occurence and has been for many years for many...My place has no water, we try to collect, and when thats out,we drag the wheelbarrel with all the buckets to the pump (which is quite a walk) and when thats shut off-then a nice mile or so walk down to the river..so minimizing....no,you just got a taste of what its like (on a regular basis)to stay in other places..as you can see am not using the Y word-cause again, thats not what this was-its about the many diff exps one deals with/encounters based on where/how one stays- So RG to make this any bigger or blow it out of more proportion is ridiculous...so no conspiracy theories, no spying, no jealousness, and not as bad-minded as you think..If someone dislikes you ,I'd think you would have a clue as why-if not have you ever just asked them ?? -...But seriously, your making yourself and this situation way more bigger than the simple post JB made...It not all about YOU and YOUR place like your somehow imagining...
OK..im done beating this poor horse (should i say donkey ??..lol)