10-31-2010, 02:35 PM
debra, i hear you and "get" you . . . i've taken a lot of flack on some of these boards for speaking my mind about my experiences with ja men . . . their true selves . . .
truth be told, my mother has always pinpointed them this way: "they are like bees, going from one flower to another polinating" and her favorite word to describe ja men is "uncivilized" . . .
. . . what happens in ja should stay there, don't bring "it" home . . . my 2 cents worth.